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刚借钱给了一个赌徒 感觉收不回来了

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晚上有个电话打进来,一看是0775固话打过来我就感觉不好。因为在桂平很少有人知道我电话,知道我电话的,我爸妈、我哥、我大姨都是会用手机打给我的。

电话是我二舅父打过来的。问我吃过饭没,就直奔主题借钱......他已经问过我借过一次,在QQ上。因为亲戚们都知道他是个赌徒,叫我如果二舅父问借钱就说没有,借了也是拿去赌。上次我婉拒了他,因为本身也没有什么多少剩余的钱借。

这次直接打电话过来借,我问他,最近差很多数吗?他说是,差人几百万!这是他自己说的,我不知道是不是。

因为之前他是做六仔庄家的,那几年赚了好多钱,基本上每开一期少则几万,多则十几万赚,在桂平买房子,两年换了两部车。换车的时候我还问他,这么快换车,稳得咁坚啊!他风光的时候有次过年回家,我和老妈去他家探年,态度也比较冷淡。对我来说这其实更好,我个人问题,我是不怎么擅长和亲戚打交道!

后来赢的钱多了,和别人去社坡赌大档。可能被人做局,那段时间他把所有身家都输了。然后和大耳窿借钱继续赌,想翻身,后果就是把房子和小车都卖了,还欠人周身数!舅母和他今年离婚了,我两个表弟表妹都跟了舅母,一个小学三年级一个一年级。这个我还是无意中知道的,看到舅妈QQ心情写“一个人的生活...”我问我爸妈才知道。

今次再问我借钱,毕竟是舅父,实在拒绝不出口了!无奈问他工行卡号,他说他工行卡可能取不出钱的,还欠工行钱。最后给了我农行卡号......还和我说,借的钱是为了今晚请银行的人玩,明天同银行借几十万出来!我擦,我虽然是晚辈,但我不是三岁小孩啊!这样的假话都说的出口。

leo哥哥仔

2013-12-03


病态赌博的十种特征:1. 在赌博上花费的时间和金钱多于自己能够负担或事前安排的;2. 借钱赌博;3. 把用于必需品(如食物、房租等)的钱拿去赌;4. 因赌博而忽视重要的责任(如工作、学业或家庭);5. 撒谎或隐瞒赌博的程度;6. 试图贏回输掉的钱;7. 为了金钱的问题与你的朋友和家人争吵;8. 因赌博而未付账单;9. 四处躲债;10. 为赖账而诬陷谋害债主。

病态赌徒大多觉得“赌注要越来越大才觉得过瘾、刺激,增加数量和次数,获取快感”。病态赌徒,病态赌徒沉溺于赌博,不能自拔,参与赌博已成为强迫性行为,以致演变到影响职业甚至伤害到家庭的地步,该病所引致的问题可能包括家庭暴力、欺诈、离婚、破产等,一般觉得赌注要越来越大才觉得过瘾、刺激,增加数量和次数,获取快感,为了筹赌本可做出非法行为,如诈骗、作假、失信及偷窃等,因赌博而致债台高筑,须靠别人金钱援助。病态赌徒们赌博时心里只有赌,其他事务毫不在意,可一连几十小时在赌桌上边吃边赌,困了只眯下双眼,直到输光。他们入迷时往往相信博彩中的玄乎,或盯着牌面或大叫或大叹。病态赌徒沉迷赌博,债台高筑,因而欠下财务公司、银行、家人及亲友债项。病态赌徒在沉迷赌博时期每天只想赌博,根本没有心情关心家人及投入工作,赌输就会与家人吵架,又要求家人代还债务,当家人替他还清赌债后,又再次“搏杀”,一心希望把之前所输的钱赢回来,结果越赌越深,不能自拔。


世界日报:赌徒邸千「霸租」纽约家庭旅馆 敲诈勒索三千美元

家庭旅馆恶房客 拿钱落跑

在法拉盛Ash大道夹邦恩街(Bowne St.)某家庭旅馆租一个床位的中年华裔男子邸千,日前向警方指称房东把门反锁、扔他东西等多种恶劣手段企图非法驱赶。房东孙先生则称,双方纠纷是因邸千欠庞大赌债,没从他那里借到钱而报警。警方介入后,双方终于和解,邸千带着房东借他的数百元日前搬出家庭旅馆,并留下一封给房东的信,作为借据。

房客邸千投诉称,房东孙先生得知市楼宇局(Building Department)要来检查后,开始驱赶房客,因他不肯搬走,多次把门反锁,扔掉他放在冰箱的食物和一些日用品,还企图把他的行李箱扔到街头。

针对这起投诉,孙先生表示,「这房客不久前因攻击罪被捕,释放后没钱,我出于好心让他住进来,劝他改恶从善。」

孙先生指出,双方此次冲突的起因是赌博,「上月20日,他说赌博输掉老板让他办事的钱,不还钱工作就没了,因此开口向我借1000元,我没借他,后来了解到他把离婚卖房刚分到的钱也输掉了,而且向几个人借钱还没还」。

「因为我不借他钱,他就不付租金并威胁称,这个家庭旅馆非法,他就在这里不走,而且要去举报,让旅馆开不下去。这种情况下,我决定关闭家庭旅馆,让其他住客搬走。没想到,他开始搞破坏,弄坏电饭锅、撬门、砸锁、威胁,朝我脸上吐口水,拳头在我眼前晃,吓得我们不敢进屋。」

关于邸千投诉他换锁一事,孙先生指出,对方听说如果房东换锁,警察可以逮捕房东,于是就以换锁为由,两次从逃生楼梯爬到四楼,从窗口进入。孙先生解释,他开始并没有换锁,后来不得已才换锁是因为邸千在锁心里塞了牙签。

孙先生强调,「我并没有扔他的行李,现在他连吃饭的钱都没有,前几天,想向我要3000元,最少2500元,说拿到钱马上就搬走。我最终给了他700元,他在周二早上搬走了,还写了一封给我的道歉信,此事也算告一段落」。

孙先生指出,纽约有上千家家庭旅馆,数以万计的华裔房东分租床位给打工者。家庭旅馆和分租都不合法规,但却为众多收入不高、以打工为生、甚至要寄钱回国的华裔移民提供很多便利、降低他们的生活成本,为政府解决一些社会问题。

世界日报记者/纽约报导
July 28, 2015
 
 
邸千,男,1971年2月出生,辽宁省大连市人,现居纽约法拉盛,职业是送货司机。嗜好抽烟赌博,打架斗殴,诈骗,欠债不还,诬告债主及房东。有犯罪被捕入狱记录。
 
Failed gambler Qian Di occupied a guesthouse and extorted $3000 (World Journal post)

An evil tenant blackmailed money
from a guesthouse then escaped

Qian Di, a milldle-aged Chinese man who rented a bed from a guesthouse on the Ash Avenue and Bowne Street in the Flushing Town, ecently told the police that his landlord try to drive out him illegally with a variety of harsh means, such as locked the door and throw him baggages. However, the landlord Mr.Sun said, their dispute is due to Qian Di owed huge gambling debts, and can not to borrow money from him, then, called the police. Through the police intervention, the two sides finally reconciliated----Qian Di moved out of the guesthouse recently with hundreds dollars whice the landlord lended him, and leave a letter to landlord for a debt note.

The tenant Qian Di complained that his landlord Sun drives all tenants while hearsay the City Department of Buildings will examine to come. Mr.Sun locked the door repeatedly, and throwed his refrigerator foods and some daily necessities because he refused to move out. Mr.Sun even attempted to throw his trunk to the street.

In view of this complaint, Mr.Sun said, "This tenant was arrested by the attack crime not long ago. He has no money after the release. I let him lived here by my kindness. Also I advised him to mend his ways."

Mr.Sun pointed out that cause of comflict is Qian Di indulged in gambling. "On the 20th of last month, Qian Di told me that he lost the payment for goods of his boss in the gambling. He was afraid that he might lose his job if he doesn''t return the payment to his boss. Therefore he asked me to loan $1000. I didn''t lend money to him yet. Soon after, I learned that he had sold his house which he got by the divorce case. He also borrowed money from many people and has not returned to them."

"He didn''t pay the rental to me because I didn''t lend money to him. He declared this guesthouse is illegal. He will not only to stay living here, but also will report to the government. He threatened to make my  guesthouse close. In this case, I decided to close the guesthouse, and persuaded other residents move away. Unexpectedly, he began to engage in sabotage, such as damaged the electric rice cooker, and pried the doors, and smashed locks.He was using violence and intimidation. He spited in my face, and shaked his fist in front of me. Therefore we dare not enter here again."

Regarding the case which Qian Di complainted his landlord changed the lock, Mr.Sun pointed out that Qian Di knew the law requires that the police can arrest the landlord who changes the lock without authorization. Thus Qian Di use it as an excuse to climbed from the escape stairs to the 4th floor and came into the window. Mr.Sun explained that he would not change the lock originally, but he changed it later because of Qian Di crammed the toothpick in the lock.

Mr.Sun stressed, "I did not throw his luggage. Qian Di has no money to buy foods now. A few days ago, He ask me to borrow $3000, at least $2500. He said that he will leave at once, as soon as he gets the money. Finally I gave him $700. He, then, moved out on Tuesday morning, and wrote an apology letter to me. This matter was end."

Mr.Sun pointed out that there are thousands of guesthouses in New York. Tens of thousands of Chinese landlords sublet beds for the migrant workers. The beds subletting of the guesthouses are illegal, but they provide some conveniences for many Chinese immigrants who are low-income, and work for a living, or even to send money to home. The guesthouses reduce their living costs, and help the government to solve some social problems.

World Journal reporter / New York post
July 28, 2015
 
Translator: Ms.Le Zhou
 
(Qian Di, a Chinese male, born in February 21, 1971. He is living in Flushing town, New York City now. He is addicted to gambling, fighting, fraud, false debt, creditors and the landlord. He has some criminal records. Warning: Do not lend your money or rent your room for the Chinese gambler Qian Di! If you find out that he is trying to harm you, please report to the police immediately. His SSN is 115-23-9532.)
 
 
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